Thursday, November 19, 2009

He...

He, who gives a woman the reason to love.
He, who broadens his chest for the lady to rest her head on.
He, who spends sleepless nights to bring food for the family.
He, who takes care of every responsibility of his familywith no greed of his own.
He, who risks his life to safeguard the nation from the evils.
He, who performs the most difficult and dangerous tasks.
He, who makes the woman, a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister.
He, who makes a woman complete.

From time immemorial, men have always been discriminated. Yes. Men have been discrimainated. On the basis of gender. They are the ones who give strength to the women around them. True it is that, women are being given a chance to prove themselves. They are now being treated as equal to men. However, the reality will still be the same. Men have alway ruled the world. And women have always allowed them to do so. That is the rule of the nature.

A woman feels happy when her man achieves something in his life. She likes being bossed around. She likes when he scolds for she knows that he is always there to care for her. She enjoys when he takes the initiative. She blushes when his mascular body rubs against hers and puts her on fire. That strength. That power. That toughness. That lustiness. That vigour. That courage. All that makes him a man. She loves it all.

Every morning, we start our day by praising the celebrities and the public figures that are flooded in the newspapers. We forget the common man. What about that neighbour who talks bullshit about you, but is now in the hospital. What about that guy who eyes you everyday in the bus hoping that you would talk to him. What about that grocery shopkeeper who doesnt see you everyday and still lives on to belief that you would come in yet another day and buy the grocery from him. What about those masons who, brick by brick, have made your dream house into a reality. What about your male friends with whom you have had your first drink. What about that mischievous brother who blackmails you but still dosen't tell your parents when you came late at night completely drunk. What about your partner who hugged and cuddled you on those cold nights while you shivered. What about your father who taught you how to cycle. We forget these tiny gestures very soon. We forget that the importance of men in our lives.

Today you have the chance to thank them all. Your father, your brother, your partner, your sons, your male friends, your collegues. So let us wish good health and happiness to all those men who have been a part of our lives on International Men's Day, this 19th day of November. May women always have these wonderful men to make their lives worth living...

Cheers to all those men who have been a part of my life...


19 comments:

Ramit said...

Thank you hon :-)

Ramit said...

It's mens day today? Are you kidding me?

anjugandhi said...

very nicely put
the men also deserve recognition

Chandni.. said...

@ Ramit : m not kidding... m serious... today is international men's day...

@ anju : yeah i know... lets thank all men around us...

buckingfastard said...

Wooo...dere is a separate day specially fr men's....really!! tears of joy in my eyes!!!

oo women...it was nice sharin space wid u in dis same small world...

da 1st few lines shows da performance pressure on we men...!!! phew hard to live up huh!! lolz(me lying in bed and sleepin 15 hrs a day)

Chandni.. said...

@ BF: get up u lazy bone... and if you dont feel the pressure then this post was definitely NOT for you :P

Punia said...

yeah dude, we men r always surrounded by competition n pressure, jus look arnd.....dere r atleast 6-8 boys behind every single girl, so much competition n competitors... :-P

Chandni.. said...

hahahaha... punia.. that was good... lol... pressure and competition... absolutely. U r right....

Renu said...

I never knew that there is a men's day also:)...but I feel that all the men in my life..husband,son,father and brother are wonderful people and men and women complement each other, none rules BTW.

Chandni.. said...

yeah.. dis day does exist... I think every body and every relation has been given equal importance by these small titles (If i can say that). I didnt know that such a day ven existed.. But the other day i saw a hoarding perhaps of Allen Solly (if i can recall correctly)... Thats how I came to know...

chitz said...

well written..i had forgotten it was men's day..cheers to all those wonderful men around us!!

Ankit said...

Thnx a ton Chandni.. for recognizing and most importantly.. acknowledging our sincere selfless efforts..

Ramit said...

I told my wife it's men's day and she said ha ha ha ha ha! :(

Such is married life!

Chandni.. said...

Thank chitz...

@ ankit: Its a pleassure to have men around.. :P

@ Ramit: I am sure you made her do stuff according to your whims and fancies. Thank god, she did not believe you... Cheers to all women.. :P

anjali said...

Firstly the usual stuff-nicely putted, thanks to all men.......

But I really dont think they need a separte day, they are so much of them in our everyday..... right from our cook to grocery person, from our family to our office, from our best friend to someone we hate.....Its anyway hard to ignore them.....

But yes, cheers to all of them....

Ramit said...

Nope, not at all. I just happened to mention that it's men's day and she laughed it off. She just did not believe it. Even I didn't hehe. I googled it and then realised it could be true. Though it does sound silly you know. Don't ask me why.

Ravan said...

hey u got a nice blog here...

aing...for the first time I saw a post actually praising men...wow... ur a meninist(as opposed to feminist)...:P

Nice one...:P

Chandni.. said...

hehhe...thanks for saying that... :)

and welcome to my blog...
keep visiting... :)


Cheers

Golden Vulture said...

heyy .. :) nice post :)
you write so well :)